Taylor Frankie Paul defends herself amid custody battles while admitting she’s not ‘mother of the year’

Taylor Frankie Paul defended herself and vowed to fight back against alleged misconceptions about her parenting amid her ongoing legal struggles in a new video on Saturday.She shared the video as she battles for custody of her two-year-old son Ever with her ex-boyfriend, Dakota Mortensen, 33.’If you know me, I don’t claim to be this mother of the year,’ Paul, 32, said. ‘I have my faults – I also have a right to stick up for myself, give context of my life.’In addition to sharing Ever with Mortensen, Paul also has an eight-year-old daughter, Indy, and a six-year-old son, Ocean, with her ex-husband, Tate Paul.In a Get Ready With Me clip, Paul applied makeup while updating her followers on her mindset amid the troubled timeframe.’Last night I studied that “long suffering” trains us to eventually thrive in it and it’s safe to say I’m starting to understand exactly what that means,’ she captioned the shot. Taylor Frankie Paul, 32, talked in detail about her ongoing custody battles in an extended clip on Saturday, saying that she feels she will disprove a number of misconceptions about her parenting as her cases move through the legal systemThe Daily Mail has reached out to representatives for Paul for further comment, but has not yet received a response. Paul said in the clip that if she’s learned anything this year as a result of ‘false headlines,’ it’s that ‘there’s a lot of false information out there and so, therefore, it doesn’t affect [her] because it’s not true.’That being said, there are some things that are true, as well.’She alluded to a recent petition filed by Utah’s Department of Children and Family Services (DCFS) which urged a juvenile court to order protective supervision for her three children on the grounds they have been ‘abused, neglected or dependent.’Paul likened the latest events to her experience filming The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, saying she knows what the truth is from her own life experience.’It’s kind of like the show for me where I don’t need to go read them because I lived it,’ she said. ‘However it is perceived or what is said, it may be accurate, maybe not, it can be exaggerated, twisted – what I do know is I lived it, and I know the truth.’Paul said that she is speaking to her legal team about whether the allegations in the filing might reflect information that is ‘something way off or misconstrued’ and the issue is one that ‘will be handled in the courtroom, not here.’The reality star said that she had tried to keep the details in the filing sealed to protect her children, while noting that she feels she has ‘made a lot of progress in the courtroom’ amid what is a ‘very slow process.’ In a Get Ready With Me clip, Paul applied makeup while updating her followers on her mindset amid the troubled timeframe Paul said that she is speaking to her legal team about whether the allegations in the filing might reflect information that is ‘something way off or misconstrued’ and the issue is one that ‘will be handled in the courtroom, not here.’ Pictured April 30 in Salt Lake City As she resumed visitation with son Ever, Paul posted a shot of him on Instagram Stories writing, ‘Saturday morning with my boy’She said that the process could take up to a year’s time, but that she feels she has ‘made the progress that [she’s] been aiming for and that is just more time with [her] son.’ Paul said she feels that different details about the legal proceedings had been ‘leaked’ around the same time she began her visits with son Ever.She denied ‘frustrating’ claims made in the DCFS filing that she ordered her daughter Indy to change the diapers of her youngest son.Paul said that, ‘Not once have I forced or made my daughter change diapers – if she ever wanted to, I let her.’She likes to help, she’s in that phase of mommy’s helper wanting to do the diaper bags, changing – if that is bad on me, so be it.’As she resumed visitation with son Ever, Paul posted a shot of him on Instagram Stories writing, ‘Saturday morning with my boy.’ Paul said that her intent with the clip was not ‘to sway anyone,’ adding that she is ‘an open book.’She added, ‘I will give you the ugly and the pretty … I will admit I am a lot of things. The reality star said that she had tried to keep the details in the filing sealed to protect her children, while noting that she feels she has ‘made a lot of progress in the courtroom’ amid what is a ‘very slow process’ Paul and Dakota Mortensen pictured last year in better times, celebrating their son Ever’s birthday ‘I can confidently say that if you were to put my kids on a stand, they are choosing mom and mom’s house every time, and I say that with full confidence because I love my children. They know that I love them – I’m at a loss for words on this experience.’ Paul described the series of recent events with her children as ‘the most difficult thing [she has] ever been through.’Some people think the best thing is getting offline – my decision is to show this process and how ugly it is.’She ended the clip by saying, ‘I’ve made mistakes. I will own that. I can see that. Hopefully, we can move forward.’ The Bachelorette star was seen attacking Mortensen with her minor daughter present in a 2023 clip TMZ posted on March 19. The jarring video led ABC to abruptly shelve Paul’s season of The Bachelorette on the verge of its premiere.Paul accepted a plea deal in the 2023 case, and subsequently was linked to a separate incident involving Mortensen that police had been probing this past February. Both denied any allegations of wrongdoing in the incident.Officials with the Salt Lake County District Attorney passed on moving forward with criminal charges against Paul this past April.At the time, a court awarded Mortensen temporary custody, granting Paul weekly supervised visits with the toddler spanning eight hours.  Dakota Mortensen and Tate Paul said in a statement Thursday they have kept mum for the sake of their children, but will ‘tell their story in their own words in the appropriate forum’Both Paul and Mortensen had been granted protection orders which called for them to keep a distance of 100 feet for the next three-year span. In a July hearing, the custody order between Paul and Mortensen had been revised to grant both longer visitation periods.Paul’s ex-husband Tate earlier this month unsuccessfully sought a temporary restraining order against her, at which time she said she would submit to drug tests to have her visits with her older children unsupervised, saying in Saturday’s clip that the results are still processing.Legal representatives for Paul told the Daily Mail last week in a statement that ‘it was recently decided that the ongoing custody actions would be best suited for juvenile court, a common step for families engaged in highly contentious, complex custody matters.’Taylor is not deterred by this transition; she welcomes the added structure and oversight it provides and looks forward to continuing her progress toward normalizing custody and becoming the healthiest version of herself.The statement continued, ‘Taylor remains fully committed to doing whatever is necessary to reach that goal and will not be swayed from it. Taylor appreciates the professionalism of DCFS and its representatives.’Tate Paul and Dakota Mortensen issued a joint statement to US Weekly through their lawyers Thursday, saying that they ‘have remained publicly silent throughout these proceedings to avoid having serious private family matters turned into more of a public spectacle than they already have due to the insatiable appetite of others to share private family information online to promote views and publicity.’They said they were ‘deeply concerned that Taylor’s statement minimizes the gravity of the action filed by DCFS and her many underlying actions that prompted such.’In the statement, they said they ‘have chosen to not participate in the often misconstrued social media and other online activity surrounding their cases’ and ‘have remained silent to protect their children, not because they have nothing to say.’The statement concluded by saying, ‘When the time is right, they will tell their story in their own words in the appropriate forum.’