Louise Thompson takes a swipe at ex Spencer Matthews as she dishes out relationship advice in gushing post about her fiancé

Louise Thompson took a savage swipe at her ‘loser’ ex-boyfriend Spencer Matthews as she gushed about her fiancé Ryan Libbey in an Instagram post on Wednesday. In a reflective message, the former Made In Chelsea star, 36, told her followers she had spent ‘years begging a loser for the bare minimum’, before finding love with Ryan, 36, who made her ‘the centre of his universe’. Alongside a montage of highlights of their relationship and quality time with their son Leo, four, Louise wrote: ‘Unfortunately, I spent years begging a loser for the bare minimum. ‘So excuse me while I brag about the man whose only ever shown consistency, understanding, gentleness and that I’m the centre of his universe.’Not stopping there, she added a footnote in the comment section: ‘Sorry make that decades and loser(s) plural’. One fan joked they hoped Spencer’s wife Vogue Williams hasn’t seen her post as they wrote in the comments: ‘Don’t let Vogue hear you say that! No longer a loser. When are you going to get that matching tattoo Louise, must be time. Ryman is the best.’ Louise Thompson took a savage swipe at her ‘loser’ ex-boyfriend Spencer Matthews as she gushed about her fiancé Ryan Libbey in an Instagram post on Wednesday (pictured 2011)  In a reflective message, the former Made In Chelsea star, 36, told her followers she had spent ‘years begging a loser for the bare minimum’, before finding love with Ryan, 36 She wrote: ‘Listen up girls. Marry the kind man. You will need all the kindness when life gets tough. And it always does. Really glad I found myself a kind man’  Not stopping there, she added a footnote in the comment section: ‘Sorry make that decades and loser(s) plural’ Made In Chelsea stars Spencer, 38, and Louise dated on and off from 2011 to 2013, finally ending things bitterly once and for all, after a string of cheating rumours on both parts.Louise broke down in tears on multiple episodes of the reality show during their rocky romance, which saw Spencer cheat on Louise in her own bed and get slapped round the face by Millie Mackintosh.Their relationship memorably ended when they met by the River Thames. When confronting her to end things, Spencer aggressively put the blame onto her as to why their romance was doomed. He shouted the now-infamous line: ‘It’s f*****g hard for me to respect you when you allow me to cheat on you.’Spencer later admitted that they had actually broken up the night before but producers wanted them to film a break-up scene for the show. The Lothario went on to find love with Vogue, 40, and they married in 2018. Earlier this month, they welcomed their fourth child together, a baby boy named Remi Valentine. Spencer previously said he regretted his behaviour during his time on the reality show.  Their relationship ended when they met by the River Thames. When confronting her to end things, Spencer aggressively put the blame onto her as to why their romance was doomed The Lothario went on to find love with Vogue, 40, and they married in 2018. Earlier this month, they welcomed their fourth child together, a baby boy named Remi Valentine One fan joked they hoped Spencer’s wife Vogue Williams hasn’t seen her post as they wrote in the comments: ‘Don’t let Vogue hear you say that! No longer a loser’  Spencer was oblivious to Louise’s pointed message as he attended the BMW PGA Championship at Wentworth Golf Club on Wednesday The television personality showed off his skills  After Louise’s relationship with Spencer ended in 2013, she moved on with businessman Alik Alfus in 2014. He seemingly was referenced in her savage post too (pictured in 2014) He said: ‘My life was spiralling out of control. It was during Made In Chelsea and I had a drinking problem. I would drink to excess almost daily and had a deluded sense of grandeur. I was uncomfortable in my own skin and change felt like too much of an effort.’I thought that because I was a prominent character on a popular TV show that things would just happen for me, not realizing that any kind of real success only comes through hard graft and determination, ‘I had no routine, no motivation, no drive and no plan. My unsustainable appetite for socialising became detrimental to my health and wellness.’ After Louise’s relationship with Spencer ended in 2013, she moved on with businessman Alik Alfus in 2014.But in the summer of 2016, while they were seemingly still an item, Louise got close to her personal trainer Ryan. The couple went from strength to strength and announced their engagement in 2018. She added in the caption about how Ryan has supported her through her terrible health battles and when she nearly died while giving birth to their son in 2021. She wrote: ‘Listen up girls. Marry the kind man. You will need all the kindness when life gets tough. And it always does. Really glad I found myself a kind man after a fair amount of shopping around. Patience is a virtue.’This is not the first time Louise has hit out at Spencer and her past boyfriends. She previously tweeted: ‘I don’t have Ex’s! I have Y’s. Like Y the hell did I date you?!?!!?!?!!?’ The television personality also joked she had ‘dodged a bullet’ after hearing how Spencer proposed to Vogue at The Lion King. She said at the time: ‘I find it so odd that he proposed at The Lion King. That would be my worst nightmare, so I’m b****y glad I dodged that bullet.’