She’s a doting stepmother to her fiancé Rami Hawash’s son Tristan and wishes to have her own children, too. But Gemma Collins, 45, revealed she really is playing happy families as she has a really close bond with Tristan’s mother, fashion consultant Fernanda Mess, who was once married to Rami, 51. During the fourth episode of Gemma’s Sky reality show, Everything. All At Once, rarely-seen Fernanda appears in the kitchen with Gemma, where they are cooking together. Gemma explained that she finds it hard to be strict with Tristan sometimes but she is learning. And in one scene, the ladies made him a healthy fruit snack and Gemma told him: ‘Look what you’ve got here, oranges, grapes, no sweets now.’ Gemma first posted a picture of Fernanda during Christmas 2021, writing: ‘Tristan’s lovely mummy @nandamess2018.’ Gemma Collins debuts fiancé Rami Hawash’s ex-wife Fernanda Mess on her reality show as she said they spend lots of time together as a trio During the fourth episode of Gemma’s Sky reality show, Everything. All At Once, rarely-seen Fernanda appears in the kitchen with Gemma, where they are cooking togetherGemma and Rami, who owns a car mechanical repairs company in Romford, Essex, dated on-and-off for three years, with Rami having proposed in 2013.The couple called off their engagement a few months later however, with Rami going on to later marry Fernanda, while Gemma dated her TOWIE co-star James Argent. Rami’s marriage broke down and Gemma and James split and she and Rami rekindled their romance in 2021 and got engaged. During Gemma’s reality show, it appears she and Rami are still very much in love but they have couples counselling because he is battling a drinking problem. Rami has had much to deal with following the death of his father – and he hasn’t seen his mother in a year because she is living in Israel. He and his mother FaceTimed one another and she emotionally told him how scared she was, saying there are explosions going off through the night. He told her he will fly her over to the UK as soon as he can but there are currently no flights. During the episode, Gemma visited the private Portland Hospital in London as part of her fertility and IVF journey, where she is told that she has a 1% chance of having a baby naturally after trying with Rami for five years.Her specialist advised she look into egg donation. Gemma had previously spoken to the Daily Mail about her wish to start a family and ‘carry the legendary GC bloodline on.’ The show navigates Gemma and Ram’s ups and downs as a coupleShe said: ‘I’m going to have it at the Portland [Hospital]. I’m going to do a press call. I saw David Beckham out there when Victoria had the baby. ‘And I’ll be sending me out to say mother and child are doing well, and then I’ll appear like the Royals do.’I mean, my child is going to be a gift from God. Everyone’s wanted me to have a baby for so long, haven’t they?’